We have all experienced both good and difficult moments, and we have all wished that we could discuss these experiences with someone who is able to genuinely listen to what we have to say.
However, what happens when we are either stopped while we are speaking or simply do not receive a response from the audience while we are speaking? Isn't it painful?
Now, place yourself in the position of someone else who relies on you to be a good listener. You wouldn't want that, would you?
If you want someone else to be a good listener, you must first learn how to be a good listener yourself. Other people will follow your lead. A few secrets that therapists employ to their advantage are something that we have, and we would like to share them with you.
First and foremost, repeating what someone says does wonders. They will discover you are actively listening if you repeat their words. You don't have to repeat every statement like a parrot. You only need to show you're listening and trying to comprehend.
People may vent if they tell you their worries. They may prefer to listen than advise. People don't always seek your advice while telling you their problems. Ask questions instead of replying. Ask how they feel or want to solve a problem. Simple questions will let them solve their own difficulties (without your aid).
Good listening and talking to someone unhappy may assist. Support their beliefs and say they're correct instead of labeling them nuts. Because you're not feeling them, not all sensations and emotions make sense. Even if it's nonsensical to you, it may be for the other person, and confirming their feelings will mean everything.
Every great listener must practice this. Give no counsel unless the talker asks. Simple as that. To confide in you, they're venting and sharing their experiences. Not because they need your advise often. You may be good at offering advise and have professional understanding of right and wrong, but don't provide it when it's not wanted.